Lucky linderman didn't ask for his life. He didn't ask his grandfather not to come home from the vietnam war. He didn't ask for a father who never got over it. He didn't ask for a mother who keeps pretending their dysfun...Lucky linderman didn't ask for his life. He didn't ask his grandfather not to come home from the vietnam war. He didn't ask for a father who never got over it. He didn't ask for a mother who keeps pretending their dysfunctional family is fine.