It's Not About Me is a must read for every young adult In Today's world, boy or girl. Not only does it explore in depth the intense sexual pressures placed Upon Today's youth, but also the serious effects of alcoholism a...It's Not About Me is a must read for every young adult In Today's world, boy or girl. Not only does it explore in depth the intense sexual pressures placed Upon Today's youth, but also the serious effects of alcoholism and rape.