For as long as halley steen has known her husband nathan, he has carried a handful of stones in his pocket. Each day he uses those stones to remind him to follow the golden rule, moving a stone from one pocket to the oth...For as long as halley steen has known her husband nathan, he has carried a handful of stones in his pocket. Each day he uses those stones to remind him to follow the golden rule, moving a stone from one pocket to the other with each act of kindness.